There is no good sex outside of marriage. You can have plenty of sex, but you will never have great sex because the only thing that can be satisfied is that carnal part of you. Our carnal man is that guy who feels like he just got out of prison every day. He is the bull that wants to breed every cow on a 5, 000 acre ranch.

Great sex is a full connection of body, mind, soul, spirit, shared dreams, beliefs, faith, friendship, and commitment. When all those pistons are firing, only then gentlemen will you be fulfilled sexually.

If you are single and want to have great sex, you must get your carnal man under control before you get married. If you don’t get it under control, marriage will not only not help you, it will make it worse. Fixing the problem will be much harder because you not only have to work through your crap but the mess you have now created with your wife.

When you get married, or you are married you will still need to control your carnal man. If you let him rule, he will beat down all the other things that make for great sex and leave you empty. If you give into your carnal man, that is all you will get.

Great sex is a lot of work. That beautiful orgasm and deep connection that both you and your wife will have/ or are having is because self control won, and your carnal man tapped out.