One of the worst things that can happen to you is to succeed being someone other than you. If you are successful and you’re only 2 layers deep in a 9 layer bean dip you will not enjoy the success  you have had because it is not really you who achieved it.  It was the actor that you played to get there,… so only the person you pretended to be can enjoy it. This happens in marriage with the whole “best foot forward” dating thing. Years later you wake up next to her and realize you’re a con man and the fit is about to hit the sham.

The blessing that comes with getting sexually pure is that you have to go back and find the real you and live honestly until death do you part. You will be grateful you did because now you can enjoy life as it was meant to be as yourself,… and fully alive.